The Sex Game

Yet the sex game goal is gaining social status, and it often has such gradual change it leaves many bewildered players looking back unsure if they haven't already lost. They feel as if they've lost something anyway, and if they aren’t quite sure how they lost it, neither are they entirely sure what it was. When suspecting it's sexual currency or social worth, they hope it's not entirely lost, perhaps only partially off the market because currently they're unsure what the rules are for getting it back on.

Of course, the game has never had any unbreakable rules, partly because though sex is fun to play, it's more than just a game, possibly not a game at all. Obviously when we're already using our market worth to hold down whatever social status we may have already gained with it, we can't continue to use it for gaining more on the market. Yet while occasionally we later feel marketability loss, we shouldn't forget we're currently using that worth for more than staking a social claim with bragging rights.

For while desire is the unavoidable fate of every human interior and woven within the very flow of our lives, love is but one interactive destiny we have the freedom to seek as a culminating fruition of our inmost desire. Let us not confuse the two, for whatever game of desire we've had, once we get where we're going, we must face forward, learning love as an act of destiny.